Walang ganang makipag-sex matapos manganak
Good morning po, Dra. I am 35 years old, married and have 2 kids.
When my husband and I are still in a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship, I can say that we had a very active sex life. When we got pregnant with my eldest, our OB advised us not to make love until the baby is born.
Two months after the baby was born, we had our intercourse. And that made me feel uncomfortable. I don’t know why. The succeeding intimacies were the same.
I’m faking my orgasm just as he is about to come. And then came baby number 2.
To make the long story short, our daughter is now 14 months old and we only had sex 3 times after she was born. Is it just me, or there’s is something wrong that I need to fix because it seems to me that everytime I give birth, my appetite for sex is getting lesser and lesser.
And I think I’m being unfair with husband, especially since he is being very understanding every time I turn him down.
Please help us, Dra! – Rita
Maraming salamat sa sulat mo. Maganda ang tanong mo. Klaro at walang kaduda-duda ang iyong gustong malaman: “Is it just me or is something wrong that I need to fix?”
Nalulungkot lang ako na hindi kita mabigyan ng sagot na kasing ganda, na kasing klaro kung ang dahilan ba ay numbr 1 o number 2, o maaaring kombinasyon ng dalawa, o walang kinalaman sa number 1 o number 2 pero may kinalaman sa iba’t ibang mga dahilan.
Pero susubukan nating ma-limit ang posibleng sagot sa tanong mo, OK?
Sa aking opinyon, ang unang posibilidad ay ang OB-gyne mo. Pinaliwanag ba niya sa iyo (o sa inyo) ang dahilan kung bakit niya sinabing huwag magsiping hanggang manganak ka? (TO BE CONTINUED)
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