Sa edad na 10: Kendra Kramer maraming admirer
Kinuwento ni Chesca Garcia-Kramer na may mga admirer na ang 10-year-old daughter nila ni Dough Kramer na si Kendra. Kaya nagiging open na si Chesca kay Kendra tuwing may gusto itong itanong sa kanya tungkol sa pagkakaroon ng crushes at sa edad nito na meron nang nagkakagusto sa kanya na lalaki.
Pero hindi naman niya ini-encourage si Kendra na ma-in love agad.
May tamang panahon para sa mga ganyang feelings.
“Kendra is already starting to have admirers. And she is pleasantly surprised by the admiration that she has been receiving. I spoke to her about the difference of flattery, crushes, admiration, and love. We sometimes talk about it anyways.
“I told her it’s normal to feel flattered when we know people like us and admire us. But, we shouldn’t think much of it and seek more out of it. Not just yet! Love is a beautiful feeling! Our love is precious and shouldn’t be given away so easily.
“While you wait for God’s best-Guard your heart! And while you’re at it, choose your friends, be mindful of your ways, remember what your parents have taught you, and find your identity in Christ.”
Gusto sana ni Chesca na lahat ng parents ay maging open sa kanilang mga anak, lalo kapag ang pinag-uusapan ay ang tungkol sa love. Mas okey daw na maging open kesa sa nagtatago ng sikreto ang kanilang mga anak. (Ruel Mendoza)