Dear Dra. Holmes:
Hi, po. I’m Arabelle. We treat each other differently. We treat each other as if we’re a couple.
But then his ex sent him a message asking him for a favor. He told me about it and said they just ended up fighting again.
But despite everything, he also told me that he still wants her back… even though the girl refuses to get back together.
I am completely lost. We still continue to hang out. He still treats me as if I am someone special but would tell me otherwise. I don’t know where I stand anymore.
I refuse to think that he is only using me as a distraction or worse as a rebound. I know that he is better than that. At this point, I don’t know if confronting him would be the best route. I am happy when I’m with him and I don’t know if that’s something I am willing to give up soon.
What should I do? Is confronting him a good idea? Is there any other way to get him to “man up” and admit what he is doing to me is unfair? I don’t know anymore what’s what. Please help.
Marami pong salamat sa sulat ninyo. Pinublish natin ang Part 1 nito noong nakaraang Martes, Enero 9, 2017. Ang Part 2 naman ay pinublish natin ngayon.
Mayroon kang 3 sinabi sa akin na basehan ng aking sagot tungkol sa iyong sa pag-harap (confront) kay Sandy tungkol sa nangyayari sa relasyon ninyo.
Ang una ay: “still treats me as if I am someone special but would tell me otherwise.”
Ang ikalawa: “I refuse to think that he is only using me as a distraction or worse as a rebound.”
Ang ikatlo: “I am happy when I’m with him and I don’t know if that’s something I am willing to give up soon.”
Gusto mo siyang harapin tungkol sa pagtrato niya sa iyo, ang ikatlong sinulat mo ay klarong-klaro na mas gusto mong i-trato ka nang ganito kaysa tumigil ito.
Kadalasan, kapag mayroon kang gustong harapin tungkol sa kaniyang mga kilos, handa kang ipaliwanag bakit hindi mo gusto ang kaniyang kilos at handa ka ing hiwalayan itong tao kung hindi niya itigil ang mga kilos na ayaw mo. TO BE CONTINUED
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